Marylou's Thoughts & Other Critical Matter:)

Still kicking***

2012-02-10T18:36:00.000-08:00

Gone fishing......for treasures((*_*))
AND embracing life, one day at a time~~
**smiles**

Time Flies When You Are Having Fun~~

2011-08-26T13:31:00.000-07:00

No excuses, been busy, BUT hope to be up and running SOON;-) Till then stop by Ets...http:// www.EdenCoveTreasures.etsy.com and see my lovely treasures;-)

**smiles**

Marylou

2011-02-21T15:11:00.001-08:00

I KNOW, it is NOW Feb. 21st and still no blogs..okay, here is the deal...I have been uber busy with Etsy so I want to start a NEW blog talking about all that is beach cottage friendly and things that go bump in the dark((*_*))

I will start soon......I promise;-)
In the meantime come by Etsy, EdenCoveTreasures and say hi~~
**smiles**
Marylou

Where Does the Time Go????????

2010-09-19T18:01:00.001-07:00

OMG, it is Sept. 19th and I still have not come back to blogging...BUT, I have been busy!! That is my story and I am sticking to it;-)
I am over at Esty 24/7 creating and having so much fun~~Check me out at EdenCoveTreasures........***AND Receive Updates From the Cove....
RSS FEED: http://www.etsy.com/rss_shop.php?user_id=8356763

**blatant plug, I know**

Next week I will start blogging again, hope you guys remembers me;-(

Okay kiddos, talk to ya soon and I will be sharing lots of very kewl new
happenings, websites, my ideas on love and life in this topsy turvy world of ours so stay tuned, K??!!?!
Chat soon;-)
Marylou

Time to Start Blogging Again;-)

2010-05-13T14:16:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone!! I have decided it is time to return to blogging, I hope you all have not forgotten me;-(

First of all it has been a difficult past year or so but I believe that time heals and it is time!! I hope you will follow me as I begin this new journey in my life;) For now I simply wanted to touch base, send hugs to all my dear friends and welcome all new ones aboard...it is gonna be a wild ride as I have a wild side;-)

Embrace Life
Marylou

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal

2009-08-31T15:19:00.000-07:00

To live in hearts we leave behind
Is not to die.
~Thomas Campbell,

There are no words for loss, especially the loss of one's friend, confidente,
mother, teacher, pal, partner, sympathizer, benefactor, ally AND sister~ My sister lost her battle with pancreatic cancer, August 29, 2009. I said good bye to her on Monday of that same week, held her close, cheek to cheek and heart to heart~~ We knew she was failing. NO, not failing, she was moving on to her next journey, one she was prepared for and willing to travel. I will MISS her more than words could ever express but I KNOW in my deepest cavities, where all our secrets are held safe & protected, that she is with HIM. I told her long ago, if you get to Heaven before me save me a seat in the front row~~I am sure she and God are having a discussion about this right now;)

A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life. ~Isadora James

I love you dear sister, always and forever, until we meet again...

M

My Girl & Her Guys;-)

2009-05-05T11:23:00.001-07:00

My daughter, Francesca, her husband David and their son Bec are leaving next week;( She has decided she wants to pursue her PhD and so they purchased a home in North Carolina, 2 blocks from campus and are moving. It will be a LONG 4 years to me and my husband, Chris;(
BUT, I am so PROUD of her.....YOU GO GIRL!!!
Love ya

A Man and His Girl;-)

2009-05-05T09:41:00.001-07:00

I just had to share this picture;) My son in his firefighter uniform and his new baby girl...Life does NOT get any better than this!!

And She Is Here;-)

2009-05-05T09:30:00.001-07:00

She has arrived and what a GIRL;-) Gianna Maria, pictured here with her mommy and daddy, my son and his lovely wife Genevieve, was sent from Heaven to Us on April 17th. She weighed 7lbs 2oz, 20 inches long and came to join her mommy and daddy with a gentle soft cry. I have had the pleasure of 3 visits and she changes each time I see her, one visit looking like her dad and one looking like her mom. At the end of the day I believe she looks like Gianna, a precious child sent to us to love;) God is so good and we are so blessed!!
Embrace Life,
Marylou

The Blues

2009-04-01T15:08:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone, I know it has been awhile since I have posted. We are still feeling "blue" but as you can see the reason is two fold. Yes, there has been some sadness in our home concerning loved ones BUT there is also such joy, as pictured here, my 6 month old grandson, Bec Quinn;-)
We are anticipating the arrival of our second grandchild, Gianna Maria, around the 15th of April so albeit there are difficult moments we are blessed with joyous times as well.

Hope everyone is well and enjoying Spring:)

Embrace Life
Marylou
xxoo

Words in flowers........

2008-10-21T10:00:00.000-07:00

I went out front today and took this picture of my violas;) Many of my annuals are so confused by the unusual weather that they are not blooming as well as in the past;( My DH decided they needed a boost so he chose to fertilize and give them B 12 at the same time........let me tell ya, this is NOT something you ever want to do. There CAN be TOO much of a good thing. Many of my plants are now in "flower heaven"........ahhhh, but do you think he listened to me when I advised him NOT to do this? Do you think he adhered to my sweet advice? Do ya think the man has EARS???
Argggggggggg, I tell ya, good thing I think he is cute and when he smiles he has these 2 dimples or I would be writing this blog from the state penitentiary for "Accidental Homicide" caused by a garden hoe;)
Happy Sunday
Embrace Flowers, Marylou ^-^

Oh My Gosh;-)

2008-10-01T18:37:00.001-07:00

Here we go again;-) Thru our recent sadness comes great joy...my son Tony and his lovely wife Genevieve have made a blessed announcement. They are having a baby;-) WOW...I am so happy and excited for them. Their child will have a cousin (who was just born on Sept. 25th) to share childhood memories with. My daughter-in-law is due in April so there will only be a few months difference in age. God needed one of our family members, it was his time to go, his purpose was above what can be accomplished here on earth and I am certain he is helping out in heaven with his many talents;) Now, God being so good chose to send 2 new lives to our family to help ease the pain of loss. I am so grateful for the goodness our family has received at a time that caused us such grief. Thank you God, these new lives will enrich our family and we will be sure to hopefully raise them to be faithful to your will.
Embrace Life
Marylou

A New Life;)

2008-09-27T08:46:00.001-07:00

We welcome this little fella to our family;) With our recent loss he is a blessing and we see much of his departed grandfather in him;)
Weighing 7lbs 15oz and measuring 20 inches long he arrived on Thursday, Sept. 25th. Mom and son are doing well and this Nona (Italian for Grandma) is overjoyed! Yes, there is that fine line of loss but as the circle of life continues we must rejoice in the "good" God gives us and understand that those who have left us are in a "better place"......Grandpa Frank, he has your smile;)
Hug Life, Marylou

An Unbearable Sorrow;(

2008-09-22T10:41:00.001-07:00

I met him at his workplace, a restaurant named Francesco's...It was
December, 1971. We chatted awhile and he asked for my phone number. I gave it to
him and thought nothing more about it. The next day at my place of work a
delivery man came into the office with a beautiful bouquet of roses. All the
girls ran to the counter, all hoping the flowers were for them. I didn't
bother as I was certain they were not for me. My boss said Mary, these are
addressed to you. I stuttered and said, "really?".....I placed them on
my desk and opened the card which simply read "From
Frank"..........and the story began!

We dated for a little over a year, wonderful dates, some which included having
dinner at The Fairmont Hotel in San Francisco and visits to Las Vegas to see a
shows by well known entertainers. One of my favorites was a trip to Disneyland
which showed how he could behave like a child but was definitely a man;) We were
married on Feb. 10, 1973 choosing a Catholic Parish. After the ceremony we
followed up with a sit down dinner and reception at the restaurant, yes, you
guessed correctly, Francesco's..;) We danced to our favorite Italian band
till all hours and left for our honeymoon the next day. We arrived in London and
visited Germany, and then spent the majority of our 2 week time in Italy. We met
up with family and attended parties and banquets in our honor. It was wonderful,
being a new bride was like walking on clouds and this man I had married was
funny, caring and full of passion for a love of LIFE!

We settled in our first apartment as husband and wife, he working at the
restaurant and I at my secretarial job. A few years later our daughter was born,
Francesca Geraldine arrived on March 23, 1975. He was so excited to see this
tiny little girl that had her father's smile;) He showered her with love and
spoiled her with toys or was that what I did, no, I recall we BOTH did. Time
passed and 5 years later our son, Anthony Dewey, was born, Dec. 11, 1979 and
when he learned he had a son he wept..... we were so happy and feeling blessed
that God chose to give us one of each, a boy and a girl and life was good. He
worked and I stayed home and took care of our home and children. Holidays held
the most wonderful memories, a time when grandparents were abundant as were
sisters and cousins. A time for growing and learning and how quickly the time
went by. Both children did well in school and followed thru to college. They now
are married, settled and expecting children of their own;)

Darker Days........he was diagnosed a few years ago with a difficult illness
but continued to keep a positive outlook on life. The doctors were amazed at his
ability to fight the demons inside that were trying to harm him. He retired,
traveled, fished, bought those infamous toys that grown men buy;) Life was good
and he talked to the children at least once a day by phone. He always kept the
communication open! Being retired he had more time to give to his children who
he loved with all his heart.... He was looking forward to the births of his
first grandchildren, and then.........life took a harsh turn. He was diagnosed
with a terminal illness and there were no cures, antidotes....only hope and that
is what he kept in his heart!

After many doctor visits, tests and a breakdown of his body and soul he spent
days with his daughter and then days with his son. His wishes were to pass from
this world at home, with his family.......and, on Friday, Sept. 19, 2008 he,
surrounded by his family took his last breath. He reached for my hand in those
last moments and I held on tight, as if by holding tightly he would not slip
away but that is not how the story ends. He left our world and he is now in the
loving arms of our God.

He will be remembered as caring, loving, accommodating, helpful, kind, generous
and funny. His legacy shall continue thru his children and their children and
the circle of life will flourish. He made his mark in many ways, he was a
successful restaurateur, a loving father, husband and friend.
He was Frank Joseph Bargiacchi, a man of his word and a man whose honor is to
be admired and hopefully taught to his grandchildren, and their children and on
and on.................

I shall miss this man, Frank, more than I ever imagined I could miss anyone. He
was the one I loved and will continue to love till the end of my time. I know he
is in a better place, I know he is surrounded by God's generous and
unconditional love and I know he is at peace.............

Frank J Bargiacchi
Feb. 24, 1948 Sept. 19, 2008

IT HAS STARTED;)

2008-06-02T18:25:00.001-07:00

Oh my gosh, it has started. I am shopping again;) Yep, call the press, it has been a long time since I truly have WANTED to shop but since I received the GRAND news, pun intended, about my grandson I am going CRAZY!
Okay, first of all the little fella will enter our world on Sept. 25th so I have LOTS of time to do LOTS of damage;) Now, for those of you who do not know DH and I have a sailboat and we LOVE pirate movies, especially the oldies with Errol Flynn;)
I sometimes tease DH and call him a pirate and of course I am his first mate, even if we are dock sailing, which we often do since I do not like the BIG water, meaning the Pacific Ocean;) I digress, but wanted to preface this latest acquisition. Look at this adorable outfit!!!! Oh, I think I am in Grandmom heaven;) My grandson's middle name has been chosen, compliments of yours truly and it will be Quinn. Mom and Dad are still working on his first name...I keep hearing Beckham, Adain, does not matter to me AS I SHALL ADDRESS HIM AS QUINN. It is such a staunch sailor's name and what does a sailor need but an adorable outfit like THIS...WOOT.....AND, it is from Baby Gap, Quinn's moms fave store!!! I shall score major points on this one, haha. It feels so good to feel happy again. Yes, there is still sadness around me but I cannot control that, it is all in God's hands. So, I like to think that God sent this little fella to us at this time to try to give us all some joy.....and JOY it has been. I can't imagine how I shall behave when he is born, most likely I will be one of those babbling grandmothers;) Okay, I won't dare show you all the other goodies I have purchased, it is terrible but SO MUCH FUN;)
Hug Life, Marylou ^-^

It's A Boy;)

2008-05-08T11:23:00.000-07:00

Lately it has been difficult for me to blog as there have been sad events happening in my life.......but.....today I have some good news and would like to share it with YOU;) My daughter, Francesca, is pregnant and she saw her gynecologist yesterday and had some tests done. The baby is well and so is mom. All is going in nature's direction as expected. THE DOCTOR INFORMED MY DAUGHTER AND HER HUSBAND THAT THEY ARE GOING TO HAVE A BOY;) Wow, I am so very grateful;) A new life is coming and I am to be a grandmother for the first time!! It is very exciting. My daughter needs to have a cesarean so they have chosen the date which is September 25th. I am counting the days;) Now, off I go to do some shopping, what do little boys like??? I am sure I shall remember the moment I walk into the mall;)
Embrace Life, Marylou

Intuitive perception.........

2008-04-19T06:11:00.000-07:00

"For God Himself works in our souls, in the deepest depths, taking increasing control as we are progressively willing to be prepared for His wonder."

I have been misguided by my intuitive perception or insight to the essential meaning of faith. You see, two very important people in my life are struggling with terminal health issues and this tragedy has taken me to a very dark arena. I love these two individuals so very much and they both have played an important role in my life, more than I could ever express in a blog.... They have also been in my life for such a long time I often find it hard to remember a time when they were not in my thoughts nor in my heart. With that said I have found a place to hide from the cruel facts of life, a place where I felt harbored from pain, a place where I thought I could escape..... and that place is called depression. I realize such a coping mechanism is NOT acceptable nor a way to get thru difficult times and overburdened thoughts in one's life. I have not done much about this but swim in my sea of doubt and I felt as though I was drowning.
This morning (here in CA it is 6:30 am) I happen to turn on my t.v. and something struck me as if I were hit by a "lightning" bolt. I walked away from the kitchen and gave my attention to the t.v. announcer as Pope Benedict was entering St. Patrick's Cathedral.... and as I watched the crowds, delirious with joy to simply be in the presence of God's most highly revered Shepherd I fell to my knees. Yes, I am not embellishing this for the sake of writing. I TRULY fell to my knees and started to pray. This Holy man brought me to my knees, where I should have been more often during this course of discernment and angst. I never left God but I never truly handed over my fears, doubts or concerns to him. This morning, April 19th, 2008, at 6:30am I rested my troubles in our Lord and passed him the sword. I cannot fight the fear and solicitude any longer BUT with HIS help I shall embrace it with all I have, and, with HIM by my side I will succeed. I will do this for not only myself, but for the loved ones who stand with me, my family and friends. I will do this for HIM.
It very often amazes me how one moment in one's life can be a critical turning point. I have noticed my moments have always been with HIM by my side. I am going to continue watching this most reverent servant of God, Pope Benedict and take pleasure in the Mass he shall deliver. May you all be blessed by his presence, may our country and other countries be blessed by his presence and may we all find our paths in life, difficult as they may be, blessed by his presence.
Embrace HIM, Marylou;)

And because there must be laughter in our lives I wish to share this quote by Pope Benedict himself when he became our new Pope, and he said.....“We were looking for a 'good shepherd,' and instead we got a German shepherd.”
Pope Benedict XVI quote
Gotta just love a Holy man who can make the world SMILE;)

~I am Here~

2008-03-16T16:56:00.000-07:00

The music is playing but I cannot hear it.....the birds are singing but I cannot enjoy the rhythm of their chirps. The flowers are blooming but I am unaware of their beauty. Best get this darn body movin' and groovin'. I know I need to take time to appreciate all that surrounds me but times have been harsh lately, happens to everyone and it appears this is my season for disappointments. I will get thru this and I shall return to blogging and chattin' up a storm with all my dear friends, soon, not sure when but I will return and I promise myself I shall make the time to stop and smell the roses;)
I simply need to not only HUG LIFE, but to EMBRACE it!!
Marylou

~My World is Upside Down~

2008-02-12T15:47:00.000-08:00

Ever feel like this???? I have and I do!!
I have been busy and I must confess that all I have been doing is "foolin' around"....:) But ya know what? I think that sometimes in life WE all need to simply have fun. Now, don't misconstrue my message here.... I have not had the pleasure of a Hawaiian vacation, or a trip to Italy so don't get all jazzed. I have just been "goofin' off".....I am not even sure I can explain it. Suffice it to say I have dust bunnies hiding, laundry piling and bills stacking as high as the redwoods.......BUT......in all this confusion I have been able to delude myself and rationalize to DH that everything is under control....LMAO;) Hey, life is short and sometimes ya just gotta stop and smell the roses;) As my friend Amy would say, YIPPY SKIPPY!!
Hug Life, Marylou

~WHAT A GAME~

2008-02-04T07:52:00.000-08:00

Okay, you may have seen the game, maybe not, but for me the highlight, after the New York Giants BEAT New England, was this commercial. This was pure brillance, and in my father-in-law's home our small group voted for our own MVP, which was a tie of course:) Thunder and the Dalmation both won;)Click on and enjoy!!
Hug Life, Marylou

~MY BAD~

2008-01-28T13:04:00.000-08:00

Hiya ladies in blogland:-) I have been lolling and fritting my time away, spending too much energy on non issues and before I knew it I missed the chance to celebrate my wonderful friends most special day:( I have no excuses other than my usual backup, my A.D.D. but I respect and adore this gal too much to even try that with her. I have been frolicking on You Tube way toooooo much!!! So, to my dear friend Ellen, a belated 39th Happy Birthday and may all your wishes come true!!!
ps..AND what a PRETTY friend she is:-)WOOT!!
Hug Life, Marylou

~AND IT RAINED, RAINED & RAINED~

2008-01-06T12:00:00.001-08:00

This picture is my driveway, where the cone is placed, on Friday which had about 2 feet of water at that point, more came. The fire trucks and city services arrived just in time to pump the water out and we were lucky, no damage to our home. We all have our own pumps due to our property arrangements, our homes being lower than the street level. Across the street from us is a city maintained drain that never works when we have a big storm. Friday's storm was the biggest in our local history, almost 8" of rainfall. I called DH from work and he came home. My son came to help out as well. Again, we were fortunate not to have any severe water damage but some of our neighbors were not so lucky. I am NOT complaining as I have seen what happened in Nevada and how many people incurred devastating damages.
Most importantly I am writing this post because yesterday my DH went to Sausalito where our boat is docked to make sure she was okay. Well, the San Francisco bay had 100 mph winds and our sail boat cover was torn to shreds. Other boats had the same damages...I was upset as the cost to repair is not in our budget now and the boat has not only a monetary value but she is my DH's second love, MOI being his first:) As I was complaining about the cost to repair, oh what shall we do, yada..yada...my DH was quiet on the other end of the phone and I could not figure out why other than he was sad because of the boat's loss........duh....sometimes I am so selfish I could kick myself. Lucky for me my foot can't reach my rear end! I asked him, why so down and out. We will figure a way to fix this. He said he had just learned that our dock neighbor, a professional diver, went out the day of the storm to aid someone in need and did not have his wet suit on, was tossed in the water due to the high swells and, well...he did not survive his brave attempt:(

So, I have made myself a promise again, I make this promise every so often and I loose perspective, so AGAIN, my promise is to never take the loss of anything monetary that serious again!!! This young man lost his life in his endeavor to come to the aid of another, THAT IS WHAT I CALL LOSS! Too sad to say much more other than thank you all in blogland for giving me this format to vent. I am grateful for that more than you know.
Take care, don't fret about the small stuff and remember, HUG LIFE......Marylou:(

~FOR BELLA~AKA, MARY@ISABELLAS CLOSET~

2008-01-04T09:32:00.000-08:00

Dear Mary,
Please remember what I told you about Spring, it will be here before we know it:-) You can see us here planting together. We do that you see, you and I. Oh, maybe not in person since we live so far apart geographically, but in our hearts. You send me an email filled with seeds that in turn are filled with love. I accept those seeds and plant them here in my heart ^-^ and a true friendship begins to take root and grow!! I have so many blossoms from you dear friend that my bouquet is full so I would like to return the favor and send you a few of those dear seeds!! May they grow in your heart as they have in mine and may they occupy every vessel in your home and in your spirit. Take care my dear friend and KNOW how many of us are praying for you! Mary, it shall soon be Spring and we shall reap the harvest of our difficult winter...take care.
Hug Life, Marylou

~ A PRAYER & A HOPE~

2007-12-30T17:50:00.000-08:00

I have borrowed wisdom from some wise & holy servants, kindly read them. I believe them to be relevant in today's current affairs.

"Be the change you want to see in the world. All the religions of the world, while they may differ in other respects, unitedly proclaim that nothing lives in this world but Truth."
Mohandas Gandhi
"We must become the change we want to see."
Mahatma Gandhi
"Whenever you have truth it must be given with love, or the message and the messenger will be rejected"
"Nonviolence is a weapon of the strong"
Mahatma Gandhi

In making my post for the New Year my thoughts were obscured considering the recent happenings in our world of "lost" HUMANITIES .....I was feeling adrift, cynical, demoralized, irreparable and defeated, exactly how "they" wanted me to feel!!

So, with some thought I decided to make this a purposeful & tenacious post, truthful and most importantly HOPEFUL. With that being said
I WANT TO WISH EVERYONE, WORLDWIDE A MOST REFRESHING & CHANGING NEW YEAR. MAY 2008 BRING US THE COURAGE TO STAND UP FOR WHAT IS ETHICAL, TO SPEAK OUR MINDS, TO AIR OUR DIFFERENCES, TO DEBATE OUR POLITICS, BUT, MOST IMPORTANTLY TO DO SO WITH PLACIDITY, TRANQUILITY AND with PEACE IN OUR HEARTS:)
I realize that sounds like a very heavy purpose, but I like to think it can be accomplished. If it only means that one person smiles at his neighbor, one person tosses a dollar in a homeless persons hat, one person signs up for local volunteer duty, one person reclaims their faith, one person gives what is so invaluable, their TIME to aid a productive cause then wouldn't our New Year start off well:) Let's all be that one person, which in turn will be many!!
God Bless us all, God Bless the USA, and God Bless those with hate in their hearts, may they find love & the path to freedom............ Cheers to a new and aspiring, constructive and positive 2008!!!

Now, go out there and not only Hug Life, Embrace it with all you have and all you are ^-^

HAPPY NEW YEAR AND MAY 2008 BRING US ALL THAT IS "GOOD" AND MAY WE SHARE ALL THE "GOOD" THAT IS IN US:)

~A GREAT LOSS~

2007-12-28T13:23:00.000-08:00

I AM AT A LOSS FOR WORDS. ALL I HAVE LEFT IN ME ARE PRAYERS FOR MS. BHUTTO AND HER LOVED ONES.

~CURMUDGEONLY~

2007-12-19T08:43:00.000-08:00

I have re-read my last post a few times and I believe I have made a HUGE mistake!! I have been complaining about the actions of others and insinuating that their bad behavior has given Christmas a surly message. WRONG!! This would only be true if I ALLOWED this to happen. CHRISTmas is a "moment in time" to celebrate the most amazing "moment in time" for all Christians, and if I am to profess to Christianity than I must behave in a Christian fashion!! I do not have the right to judge nor should I. I do not have the right to complain, nor should I. I do not have the right to decide what is right for others, nor should I. With that made clear I SIMPLY WANT TO WISH EVERYONE A VERY, MERRY CHRISTMAS. I hope and pray that we will someday not worry about anger, resentments, wars, poverty, sickness and the more frivolous things I previoulsy mentioned....... gifts, traffic and personality flaws....but until that day I shall THANK GOD for ALL the goodness in our world we so often forget to acknowledge.

There is such beauty around us from our glorious & abundant mountain ranges to our capacious azure oceans...There is such beauty around us including kind & loving people of all races and creeds...There is such beauty around us as there are those that give of themselves to offer help to those in need and to those wonderful peeps I say AMEN and THANK YOU. May this season find you all healthy, prosperous and loved.......... and may I remember all of the above:-)
HUG LIFE, Marylou

~The Last Christmas~

2007-12-13T14:40:00.000-08:00

See this little kitty, cute isn't she?? But sad:( Well, we were chatting and we both felt rather discouraged as it seems to US that Christmas is simply NOT what it used to be. I remember when you could walk into a store and hear Christmas music, or you could stop in town and see a grand Nativity display or you would see the smiling faces of people, excited to make their Christmas purchases and return home to wrap their presents, decorate their tree and make some egg nog!! Well, it seems like that is all a memory. I do not hear the music, nor do I see the Nativity scene and I think people are usually in such a hurry and well, gosh, they are simply behaving badly!! Cars are honking at me cause I am not driving fast enough and some go as far as to wave at me with one finger????? AND...what is up with this HAPPY HOLIDAYS greeting?? Is it Arbor Day? Memorial Day? St. Patricks Day???? NO, it is Christmas. Therefore why can't we say MERRY CHRISTMAS?????ARGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!I wish we could get back to the way things were but I am afraid with all this nonsense of separation of church and state activists have taken things simply too far.......and they have taken away MY RIGHT to have a MERRY CHRISTMAS. Last time I checked this country of ours was founded on the right to celebrate GOD and I don't believe we changed any of the Constitution lately, although there are those who would like to!! So, with that said I would like to wish everyone a very MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR. I TRULY DON'T CARE HOW YOU CELEBRATE AND I RESPECT THE FASHION IN WHICH YOU DO SO.... IF IT IS A MENORAH, A BUDDA OR A FIG LEAF BLESS YOU AS IT DOES NOT MATTER AN INFINITESIMAL DEGREE TO ME, JUST PLEASE BE SURE TO CELEBRATE!!!
And, Please Don't Forget to..............Hug Life, Marylou ^-^

~THEN AND NOW~

2007-12-06T08:12:00.000-08:00

Well, a few things have changed from my last post:) The kids are now adults and living on their own, decorating their own homes! Whoa.....again, not sure where the time went but the train certainly left the depot and I was not aboard:( So, this is my tree for 2007....smaller and I noticed the ornaments have slightly changed. I used to have the most precious ornies ever, made by the kids. Usually a round ball with their name in glitter, a home made critter made from walnut shells and the obligatory but fun school picture framed with popcicle sticks:-) I have saved them all and may package them in a neat box with a ribbon as a Christmas gift, one for Tony and one for Francesca. They can add them to their trees and share with their children who I hope will be conceived during my lifetime!!!!!!! (big grin here) I took some pics so you can now see more boating thingys (DH loves sailing) and I notice more squirrels ^-^. My Nativity Set is smaller in size but not in faith!!! Of all that has grown, the most precious to me is my faith. Each day I come closer to our Lord and I am so grateful for that:) Enjoy a fews pics of my Nativity, my sailor's fave ornies and my squirrels. Nothing fancy but all showing our loves, our faith and our hopes and dreams. AND our gratitude for each day God gives us:) May you all have your own hopes and dreams and may you all have a stong faith, no matter the religion, just be sure you have a higher being you can trust and pray to, that is all it takes:)
Hug Life, Marylou

~YESTERDAY~

2007-11-30T10:59:00.000-08:00

Yes it was only yesterday:-) Well, not quite:( This picture was taken in 1993 and my daughter was home for Christmas from college. Helping her decorate the tree was her brother who was 14 years old. She is now 32 and he is 28...where have the years gone?? I tell ya, life happened and someone forgot to tell me. How can I have two grown children, I am a young, youthful gal:-) Well, gal is correct ^-^ I was looking thru some boxes of pics and wanted to share with ya. I passed by the ones of the kids when they were 4, 5 and 6..too painful!! This one was difficult enough!! Nah..I am not complaining. I am so "blessed" to be their mom and have the wonderful family & life I have:) I just wanna know how long I was in the coma????????????????
HUG LIFE, Marylou

~Wasn't It Just Easter??????????~

2007-11-25T07:58:00.000-08:00

Okay, correct me if I am wrong but wasn't it just Easter??? I know Thanksgiving came early this year, we are still in the month of November with a whole week left and yesterday I saw cars toting their freshly purchased Christmas trees home!!! How are they gonna keep those puppies green till Christmas? Even in water my trees when bought during the first week of December dry, droop and drizzle by Christmas Eve and I like to keep her up till after New Years so by then I have that "Charlie Brown" tree syndrome:-( I digress, back to the issue at hand. I could have sworn I was just basting the Easter Ham and this past Thursday I had a Turkey in the oven. YIKES....time is going by and everyone forgot to tell me!!! I know, I am simply getting older...bawaaaaahhhaaaaaa....I don't mind aging, BUT God, please don't let me forget it:-) Well, I have made a list for DH today. Gotta get the Christmas lights up outside, pull my boxed Christmas decorations out of the black hole (the black hole is my name for our garage, once something is placed in there it is never to be found again) I imagine I should prepare the fireplace mantle for my clever new Christmas decor, uhuh, the same one I have used for the past 7 years or so:) Now, I am NOT complaining...I love Christmas. I just want to make sure it doesn't happen without ME!! Happy Holidays ya all!
Hug Life, Marylou
ps. I think I had better check my Zen manual for all this, there must be some chant or meditation I can incorporate for ENJOYING EACH DAY AS IT COMES ^-^

~HAPPY THANKSGIVING~

2007-11-21T08:17:00.000-08:00

Not just this Thanksgiving day but every day I am thankful for the many gifts that surround me. The appreciation I hold for the beauty of our crisp blue skies, twinkling stars, cresting seas, curvaceous mountains AND the cherished love of our family and friends overwhelms me. These are my most precious and sacred gifts which I hold dear to my heart each and every new day God grants me. To all of you amazing, brave & generous gals in blogland I wish for you the most wonderful Thanksgiving Day:) Enjoy the turkey & gravy & pumpkin pie, BUT, RELISH with PASSION the loved ones you sit and share your meal with:)AND..........don't ever forget to:
Hug Life, Marylou

Giving Thanks

For the hay and the corn and the wheat that is reaped,
For the labor well done, and the barns that are heaped,
For the sun and the dew and the sweet honeycomb,
For the rose and the song and the harvest brought home --
Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving!

For the trade and the skill and the wealth in our land,
For the cunning and strength of the workingman's hand,
For the good that our artists and poets have taught,
For the friendship that hope and affection have brought --
Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving!

For the homes that with purest affection are blest,
For the season of plenty and well-deserved rest,
For our country extending from sea unto sea;
The land that is known as the "Land of the Free" --
Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving!

~Author Unknown

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~ZEN KITTY~

2007-11-18T08:31:00.001-08:00

Wavy Gravy once asked a Zen Roshi, "What happens after death?"
The Roshi replied, "I don't know."
Wavy protested, "But you're a Zen Master!"
"Yes," the Roshi admitted, "but I'm not a dead Zen Master."
Well, since most of what I have learned so far is 10 fold over and beyond my comprehension I resort to humor:-) Yes, my name is Marylou and I am addicted to humor!!

I have been learning about "sitting" (zazen) which is the meditative portion of ZEN, the most important. It involves the position of ones spine, breathing properly and being a contortionist:) JK.....Once you are in a "sitting" position on a cushion, legs crossed with your feet resting on your thighs, hands together with thumbs touching leveled at your navel, eyes open but sorta closed, it's not as simplistic as is sounds, you may begin:) If one cannot clear one's mind and center himself then ZEN is not really gonna work for ya....the analogy used in my book refers to "jumping monkeys"...YEP...apparently we all have "jumping monkeys" in our minds and we need to rid ourselves of them to find clarity. Anyone gotta bunch of bananas????? I am condensing here immensely and taking liberal license, but since it is MY blog I don't have any issues with that. I am having difficulties with clearing my mind...no snide remarks please, have gotten those from my loved ones and let me simply say this, they only said it one time!!!!! I am still on my path, trying to find my way ZEN style. I may have to make a few adjustments here and there and decide what works best for me. To be a complete ZEN student one must be very disciplined and this is an attribute lacking in my "being" so I have taken a few shortcuts here and there. I think as long as I stay on the path, Dharma, I may certainly choose which fork in the road to follow:) Now, go out there and free yourself of those darn monkeys, find clarity, be at peace with the world and don't forget to............HUG LIFE!!! Marylou

~FRIENDS~

2007-11-15T07:39:00.000-08:00

Last night I had the pleasure of chatting with our dear friend Carole. So ladies here is the scoop:) She is doing well, her attitude is "fantabulous" and she is one strong woman!! She is having frequent physical therapy visits but considering what she has been thru this gal is moving forward. The computer is still difficult for her but she will return to blogging as soon as she can. She sends her love to all and thanks everyone for the kind messages and good wishes:)
We could have spoken for hours, two kindred pals with many seasons in common. She is the yin of my yang:-) Her engaging spirit and affable manner touches my heart.... The beauty of her words and gentle kindness left me in awe of this lady I call my comrade, buddy & pal.
I am so happy and I feel so blessed to be considered her friend so I leave you with this message:

"OF ALL THE BLOSSOMS IN LIFE'S GARDEN,
FRIENDSHIP IS THE MOST FRAGRANT"
Hug Life, Marylou:)

~RELAX~

2007-11-14T16:02:00.000-08:00

I have been doing alot of nothing lately:) Don't ya just love when that happens?? Yesterday was nada, today was zip and tomorrow is I don't know:-) Well, the truth be told I have been up to something...now, please don't anyone get their panties in a knot on this one because I am a Christian gal. With much research I have learned one can be of faith and also delve in Zen! Yep...I have been listening to Gregorian Chants and reading about Zen. Trying to uncomplicate my life and make this process as basic as I can for myself and my family. I told DH he can come along for the ride or bear my rath......so........he has chosen wisely:-) I am only in the beginning stages of learning so I shall keep you all posted and current with my progress. Wish me luck with my journey into the realm of calmness, tranquility and placidity.
Peace and Hug Life, Zen style:) Marylou

~THANK YOU~

2007-10-30T10:39:00.000-07:00

My son is home, safe and sound! I want to thank all of you who so givingly shared your prayers for him and his comrades. I can't begin to explain the relief I feel and I am so eternally grateful for the ANGELS he had surrounding him and his brothers as they fought this horrific inferno. I will certainly keep vigil for those still on duty, not only in Southern CA but for all those fine young men and women who are in some way serving a civic or national duty in our name.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND MAY YOU ALL ARRIVE HOME SAFELY:)
Hug life, Marylou

~What They Don't Tell You~

2007-10-26T11:02:00.001-07:00

I received my first phone call from my son yesterday. He is safe and for that I am so grateful. Thank you for your circle of prayers:)
What you don't hear on the news......My son informed me that the generosity of people has been over whelming. The firefighters have been given plenty of food, water, along with love and appreciation...and all this from strangers. It is an amazing community that has embraced these brave men and women and the out pour of volunteers has been staggering. The victims (yes that is how I feel for the poor souls who lost their homes and precious belongings since it is being called arson) are also feeling this tremendous giving experience. They may have lost their homes but not their spirit and for that I am grateful. I am in awe of the constant kindness that surrounds the raging inferno, what a beautiful display of strength, faith & hope from those who have lost so much. I am PROUD that my son is able to be simply "one" of many who are able to participate in the saving and healing process. I am honored to be "human" today:) We can be such an incredible species and I certainly prefer our behavior when we act in this fashion. No hate, no wars, no disenchantment with each others faith, ethnicity or class. Life can be wonderful even after tragedy.
The fires are still burning so please keep everyone in your daily prayers. Thanks so very much:)

Hug Life......Marylou
PS...My son shook the hand of the President of the United States yesterday! He had his picture taken with him along with the rest of the crew and I will receive a copy and proudly display it in my home. My son shall never forget that moment as the President thanked him and each member of the Novato Fire Dept. individually for their service. I shall never forget the pride in my son's voice as he shared this moment with me via phone. OH...my, life is so GOOD:)

~I NEED YOUR PRAYERS~

2007-10-22T09:43:00.001-07:00

I just received a call from my daughter-in-law telling me that my son is on his way to San Diego and the current devastating fires. I ask this for ALL the young men and women who will be fighting this wicked inferno, PLEASE keep them in your prayers. Thanks so very much! Marylou

A Fireman's Life
A fireman's life is one big surprise,
Usually he laughs, sometimes he cries.
There's always stress, toil and strife,
Hoping he's good enough to save just one life.

His wife understands, when he misses dinner,
If he runs out of church, don't think he's a sinner.
Answering a call, is tops on his list,
Regretting each one he's ever missed.

He tries and tries, but can't make us see,
The happiest men, still work for free.
Jumping from bed, fighting the cold,
Knowing what to do, without being told.

He rushes to the station, jumps on a truck.
Depending on skill, never on luck.
Putting his life on the line, for an unknown friend,
Hoping and praying, it won't be the end.
"The Bravest Men in the World", the title is fitting,
They all do their best, never come close to quitting.
Next time you see them, all their lights blinking,
Take just a minute, to think what they're thinking.

It's a hard job, so show them you care,
And help them out, with a little prayer.

-- Daniel S. Driscoll. --

~ANOTHER YEAR, THANK YOU GOD~

2007-10-19T05:42:00.000-07:00

HI GOD, IT'S JUST ME AGAIN, MARYLOU.....:) I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU FOR ANOTHER YEAR. IT IS SO THOUGHTFUL OF YOU TO SEND ME RAINBOWS, LUSH GREEN FORRESTS, BREATH TAKING SUNRISES AND SUNSETS, BEAUTIFUL OCEANS AND GLORIOUS ROCKY MOUNTAIN RANGES...I THINK YOUR BEST GIFT IS THE GIFT OF LIFE YOU HAVE BESTOWED UPON ME AND I THANK YOU SO MUCH! YES, THERE HAVE BEEN HARDSHIPS BUT THRU THOSE DIFFICULT TIMES YOU HAVE TAUGHT ME MUCH. I KNOW, WITH YOU BY MY SIDE I CAN DO ANYTHING:) THANKS AGAIN AND KNOW I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY, EVERY HOUR, EVERY MOMENT!
HUGS, YOUR DAUGHTER, MARYLOU
PS...THANK YOU SWEET MARY, AKA ISABELLASCLOSET, FOR MAKING THIS BEAUTIFUL TAG:)

~CALLING ALL GIRLFRIENDS~

2007-10-16T08:58:00.000-07:00

Calling All Girlfriends:) I have heard that Carole, from ScoundrelsRogues, is not feeling well. She had a rather difficult surgery and has been suffering with complications. I thought..... yeah..I had a lightbulb moment:)..... that we could all send her regular mail get well cards. If you write me from your blog I would be tickled pink to give you my snail mail addy. This way I can collect the cards for Carole, and when I have a nice amount I shall box them up all pretty for her with lots of tissue, glitter, sparklie thingies and all the goodies she loves. She is such a loving and caring gal and I am hoping this little gesture will let her know how much we all care. Thanks so much and feel free to email me with any questions:)
Now, go out there and HUG LIFE.......Marylou

~Happy Autumn~

2007-10-09T08:35:00.001-07:00

Being a Christian is like being a pumpkin. God lifts you up, takes you in,
and washes all the dirt off of you. He opens you up, touches you deep inside and scoops out all the yucky stuff-- including the seeds of doubt, hate, greed, etc. Then He carves you a new smiling face and puts His light inside you to shine for all the world to see. This was passed on to me from another pumpkin. Now, it is your turn to pass it to a pumpkin. I liked this enough to send it to all the pumpkins in my patch. Happy Fall!

I know this lovely verse has been floating around but I love it so much and simply felt a need to share with you. I don't think we can "hear" good words often enough:)
Hug Life, Marylou

~WHAT A GAL:-)~

2007-10-08T07:27:00.001-07:00

Meet Egad! Yep, that is his name. My DEAR friend, Ellen sent him to me and I am so jazzed!! I collect vintage squirrels, new ones too:-) She so thoughtfully found this little guy for me, boxed him up and he arrived here on Saturday. DH was home and as I opened the box he said, "hey, he even has nuts":-) DH was referring to the salt and pepper shakers, I think??????

Anyhoo....I am amazed each day as I read someones blog, drop a note and they respond in kind.... but to receive a gift, just because, well, it is rather akin to "life is good" and reminds me there are many, many sweet & thoughtful peeps out there in this great big world of ours. Albeit we hear of the good, bad and ugly each day on the daily news please remember, the "good" stand out above the rest!! Thank you E...:-)
Hug Life, Marylou

~WE ARE WISE:-)~

2007-10-04T18:05:00.000-07:00

"Aoccdrnig to rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey wrod"

I saw this the other day and it reminded me how resourceful the human mind is and how very smart we are:) Read the above sentences and even though it looks like another language you will be amazed at how well you do. It also brings to mind the new world of texting and as I watch my kids, both adults now, text message all the time as though it was so easy "I don't get it":) Well, I tried and tried and WOWZA...I barely could send one sentence as it took me forever:) Think I will stick to the phone and simply dial:) Just some fun for today.......Happy Friday everyone and wishing you all a "fantabulous" week-end!
Hug Life, Marylou

~FOR AMY~

2007-09-28T05:21:00.000-07:00

“Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength"
This blog entry is for Amy:) The little squirrel is singing praise in your name:) On a personal note I would like to say this...I admire you Amy!! Your courageous journey and your willingness to share with us your trials and tribulations has been amazing. I want you to know that thru YOU I feel an inner strength and have learned what the word COURAGE truly means. Thank you for showing us all what one can do when faced with adversity. Blessings to you and your family:) Sending much love and hugs your way, Marylou

~MY BEST FRIEND:)~

2007-09-10T18:21:00.000-07:00

Seems like I have not blogged for a long time..well, it has been awhile. I am preparing for a trip I shall be making:) I am so jazzed...I will be leaving on Sept. 18th to visit my sister, Giovanna, who lives in Arizona. I have not seen her since last November so this will truly be a wonderful and much deserved visit for us both!! My DH will be holding down the fort here and I get to spend 10 delightful days with my best friend, pal, buddy, confidante, sister and all around most amazing gal I have ever known. Now, I am not just saying that because she is my sister:) Really, every life she has touched has been "blessed" by her loyalty, kindness and friendship. She has been a rock for me, a stabilizer and fabulous support thru my life and continues to hold me up when I sometimes fall. BUT..most importantly we shall be together for 10 glorious days which will include girl talk, laughing, reminiscing of "old times" and simply having a grand visit.

So, if ya don't hear from me for awhile please know I shall return with pics and hopefully fun stories:) Thanks for the nice emails asking about my whereabouts...it is nice to know you all care. I LOVE this blogland community:)
Ciao girls and please, don't forget to...........HUG LIFE........Marylou

~WEEK-END WIDOW~

2007-09-01T15:07:00.000-07:00

I am a overtime widow this week-end:( Yep...my DH has been mandated to work on a project that must be completed by Labor Day so the house is still..quiet & serene:) Just me and my kitty, Sassy girl!! I have some lovely angelic music playing, I am sipping a delish Arnold Palmer (iced tea & lemonade) and I am truly enjoying the solitude. So, I have been totally checking out blogs:-) WOOHOO....there are so many beautiful blogs and talented ladies out there! I noticed many of you sweet gals love sea shells and ocean themes as I do so I took 2 pics for ya. One is of my seaglass I collect. The other is of pebbles and stones I have "borrowed" from the sea:) This is truly a tiny glimpse as I think my small cottage has more sea glass, sea shells and sea themed items than one petite bungalow can hold......but.......I love it as does DH...all I need now is the water around me and I would then be in sea heaven:-) Happy Labor Day to everyone, wishing you all a safe and fun holiday.........and ya know what I gotta say...yep, don't forget to HUG LIFE
Peace, Marylou
ps..Just a footnote, DH & I always take colored bottles with us on our beach jaunts and replace and restore the ocean. Makes us feel like we are giving back, not simply taking:-)

~REPRISE~

2007-08-31T13:46:00.000-07:00

Awwwwwwww...yesterday my most special fella came over and took me to lunch. WOOHOO:-) The special fella is my son, Tony! We went to the most delightful Italian restaurant and dined on wild salmon over a bed of polenta...Can we all say YUMMMMMEEEEEEEE!! Tony not only took my mind off the last few silly days of drama he also took me to a fun second hand store where I found this BEAUTY, Gift From The Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh:-) I am gonna share some of the pics with ya cause they truly put a smile on my face. I love the ocean so for me this is very special...between Tony's visit, our divine lunch and my special find, life is good again:-) A big shout out goes to you all for your words of encouragement..this blogging community never ceases to amaze me. Your love and kind messages inspired me..YUP..I did it!! I smiled, grinned, greeted and almost mowed down every poor soul who crossed my path yesterday:-) Tony even asked me, "Mom, are you okay??? You seem rather extra happy:) I explained to him the previous days events and he smiled, put his head down, touched my hand and said....."Mom, I LOVE YOU"..awwwwwwwwwww, I tell ya, it just don't get much better than that!! Rock on ladies and PLEASE DO NOT FORGET TO HUG LIFE!!! Marylou

~DRAMA~

2007-08-29T17:39:00.000-07:00

I have a heavy load today!! Well, it happened!! I am an eBay seller and have been doing this for the past 8 years or so. I have been "blessed" with lovely customers as well as making many new friends:) Recently I had a customer purchase an item from me. While I was packaging the item I dropped it!! YEP...and it was breakable and it became damaged. I immediately refunded the customer in full explaining what had happened. This did not please her and she decided she wanted the item, no matter what!! Well, this would have been okay except I had tossed the item and no longer had it in my "hot little hands"......I tried to appease her to no avail. Even though she received a refund in full she was not happy and accused me of many devious actions I shall not go into. Problem is this...LIFE IN GENERAL IS TOUGH FOR ME RIGHT NOW...I have some personal issues I am trying to bravely deal with, therefore I have NO ROOM FOR DRAMA. I have reported the situation to eBay along with all the emails etc....I don't know what shall happen but it makes me sad because...I WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO COMPASSION...WHERE DID IT GO??? HOW DID WE LOSE IT??? DOES ONE HUMAN WHO IS HURTING NOT COME TO THE AID OF ANOTHER??? I don't understand how as a society we simply seem to no longer CARE. We worry about our cars, our homes, our bank accounts but NOT OUR FELLOW MAN. YEAH...THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT OR TWO....WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOU WERE AT THE MALL, OR GROCERY STORE OR GAS STATION AND SOMEONE GAVE YOU A SMILE, A GOOD DAY OR A HELLO????? Well, I am not gonna give up...tomorrow when I go to do my errands I shall smile at every person I see:) I may even say "hi"...I may go as far as to say "hope ya have a good day"....if you hear of a woman arrested for "being too friendly" please come bail me out!! I have a feeling most folks will think I am "crazy".....such a sad commentary for us all!
Hug Life, Marylou

~CHERRY QUEEN:-)~

2007-08-15T11:29:00.000-07:00

OH MY GOSH...........isn't she pretty?? Yep, that is my mom:) She was voted Cherry Queen of her small town when she was but 16 years old...maybe 18, sorry I don't remember. Better check with my sis G:-) Anyhoo...I am just delighted to have these fun pics to share. I am so PROUD of her, not only was she rather pretty but she was very smart. Funny, we don't think our parents are smart until we get older and then they become geniuses:-) Thanks for trippin' down memory lane with me.
Hug Life, Marylou

~DAD~

2007-08-13T07:52:00.000-07:00

After I completed by blog yesterday I knew it was missing something......of course, my DAD!!!
Affectionately know to me as "Pop" he is missed as much as my mom. He too always had words of wisdom to which I turned a deaf ear...yeah, like I knew anything!!! Had I listened to him more often my life would have been an easier ride! I miss you both so very much and........ you both are always in my heart with your footprints embedded in my soul!
Love you POP!!!!
Your daughter,
Me

~MOM~

2007-08-12T15:38:00.000-07:00

I was thinking of my mom today and how much I MISS her!!! So this post is for her. I know she is in heaven with my dad but I am hoping she takes a peek now and then to make sure I am not in too much trouble:) Mom, I love you and I miss you!! AND..you were right...in everything you told me. Just wanted to say that because you deserve to hear it:)
Always with love,
your daughter, Me

~THEFT~

2007-08-10T14:53:00.000-07:00

My daughter and her friend, the doctor (BIG SMILE HERE) came by yesterday to take me out to lunch to my fave restaurant in town. We had a FANTABULOUS lunch with delish food, a wonderful ambiance, & great conversation. As we sat outside on a beautiful CA sunshiny day we chatted a good 2 hours away:) We left and as we arrived to the car Dr. Dave noticed he had forgotten his digi camera on the table. He returned, which maybe took 10 minutes, and when he arrived back at the restaurant he was told they did NOT SEE THE CAMERA ...DO YOU KNOW HOW BIG A DIGITAL CAMERA WITH A CASE IS?? It is NOT a small item that one would accidentally throw away or NOT see...we are SURE someone decided they needed one and decided to abscond Dr. Dave's...the owner/manager of the restaurant was RUDE...BLANTANTLY RUDE!!!! We filed a police report but doubt anything shall be done. SO........$750.00 for lunch is rather pricey and..... I feel so bad for Dr. D AND I SHALL NEVER, EVER, EVER RETURN TO THAT RESTAURANT AGAIN...I SHALL ALSO ADVISE MY FRIENDS TO DO THE SAME.....EGAD, SOMETIMES PEOPLE DISAPPOINT ME:(
Peace......Marylou

~FRIENDS~

2007-08-09T07:20:00.000-07:00

Isn't she beautiful??? I simply love this picture and since I have a dear friend I call "Hooters" I wanted to post this just for her:) Owls are not only gorgeous on the outside but inside as well......kind, wise and loyal:) Just like my friend, so hereya go Carole!
Hug Life,
Peace....Marylou

~THE FLITTER~

2007-08-08T13:19:00.000-07:00

OH YEAH....I am totally out of the loop today!! Been flittin' round all mornin' and still nothing is done! Wish I could figure out what it is I flit??? Starts like this...I pick up my cup of coffee and take it to the sink...there I see my glasses so I grab em and walk to my bedroom to set them on my nightstand...there I see my latest novel and think....hmmmmm...I could read just ONE chapter:).......then I go to sit in my big comfy chair and see DUST on the side table......so I go back to the kitchen to get a dust cloth where I see the chocolate cake on the counter and........ without batting an eye I cut a piece for MOI and pour MOI a glass of milk....I then come by the computer and think I had better tell someone about my "oh so productive" day:-) So, here I am, flittin' around:-)
Now, don't flit.......go make it a CONSTRUCTIVE DAY:-)
Hug Life
Peace, Marylou

~SISTERS~

2007-08-01T11:15:00.000-07:00

My sister and I.....a "few" years ago:-) I love her with all that I am!! So, G..this is for you!!
Sisters are different. They heard the sobbing in the darkness.

They lived through all your triumphs, all your favorites,

all your loves and losses. They have no delusions.

They lived with you too long.

And so, when you achieve some victory, friends are delighted -

but sisters hold your hands in silence and shine with happiness.

For they know the cost.

Pam Brown

Because I must always have humor in my life I have indulged in this lovely quote as well:-)

She is your mirror, shining back at you with a

world of possibilities. She is your witness, who sees you at your

worst and best, and loves you anyway. She is your partner in crime,

your midnight companion, someone who knows when you are

smiling, even in the dark. She is your teacher, your defense attorney, your personal press agent, even your shrink.

Some days, she's the reason

you wish you were an only child.

Barbara Alpert

Hug Life,
Marylou

~ I WON~

2007-07-31T11:46:00.001-07:00

Oh my gosh.....I WON:-) YAHOO, WOOHOO, YIPPY SKIPPY and it's about time!! (only kidding on the last one) If ya know me personally then you know this...I NEVER win nada, nothing, zilch, zero, etc...etc...I used to live in Lake Tahoe and maybe on occasion would try my hand at gambling..HAH...never won a jackpot!!! When my kids were young they attended Parochial schools and we constantly had fund raisers. I purchased more raffle tickets than anyone I know, mainly cause I did not want my kids bothering others when selling them. I also bought ALL the Girl Scout cookies so my daughter would not pester the neighbors..go figure!...I digress...... Point is I have never won a prize. Well, my day has ARRIVED....I won the "caption" quote contest from Lallees Cottage:) This little bee was a photo she snapped and asked us to offer a caption for him:) I think LALLEE should win a prize for the photo!!!! I offered this....."Float like a Butterfly, Sting Like a Bee"....can't take the credit...it is from the Greatest Boxer that ever lived, Muhammad Ali:-) Thanks so much Lallee....this is such fun:)
Hug Life
Peace,
Marylou

~THIS GAL ROCKS~

2007-07-30T08:57:00.000-07:00

My dear sweet bud, Zoe, from Casa-Preciosa at ebay has the most "fantabulous" shabby chic items available. You gotta go check her out...simply go to ebay and do a seller search for Casa-Preciosa and then visit her ME page. This gal has "the look" and you will fall in love with her treasures:) Go take a gander, she has the most grand cottage decorating ideas for your CASA!!
Hug Life,
Peace, Marylou

~AND I LOVE HER:-)~

2007-07-26T08:39:00.000-07:00

She is my pal, buddy, confidante, and all around best friend:-) She puts a smile on my face when I feel down and knows when I am stressed or simply unhappy. Her name is "SASSY" and I love her:) I think she loves me back:-) We are quite the pair, just a couple of clowns short of a circus:-)
Hug Life,
Peace...Marylou

~AT THE END OF THE DAY~

2007-07-22T17:37:00.001-07:00

HUBBY AND I JUST OPENED A NICE BOTTLE OF WINE, SHARING THOUGHTS, DREAMS AND HOPES:-) WISHING YOU ALL A WONDERFUL WEEK TO COME FILLED WITH JOY, GOOD HEALTH AND LOTS OF LOVE:)
Hug Life,
Peace, Marylou

~SPIES??????????????~

2007-07-21T06:50:00.001-07:00

My dear friend and co-hort blogger, Ellen, sent me this horrific story. Apparently 14 squirrels were recently arrested in Iran found with some type of radar equipment on them......Iran has considered them SPIES!! And there are peeps who actually think I AM SQUIRRELY!! Now I have seen everything....better go out in the back forty and check for any rodent wearing a turban or holding a glock! Yeah...better go do that! What's next??? Sparrows with little notes tied around their feet holding messages in code?? Whoa...we really gotta be careful with the MOLES!! No, maybe little raccoons, ya know they have a permanent mask anyhow:).....running across the border with government data...heck, I think we already have the rats involved, aren't they all in Congress?? Okay, enough of my silliness.....just had to share this with ya. Thanks Ellen for keeping your eyes and ears open:)
Hug Life and remember....next time you see a squirrel DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT GIVE HIM ANY INFORMATION REGARDING GOVERNMENT SECRETS AS HE MAY BE A DOUBLE AGENT ENGAGING IN ESPIONAGE:-)
Peace, Marylou

~FROM ONE NUT HOUSE TO ANOTHER~

2007-07-19T18:10:00.000-07:00

Just stopping in after having a bite for dinner:-) YEP..My name is Marylou and I LOVE SQUIRRELS...I have been to SA, Squirrel Anonymous to no avail. I collect porcelain squirrels & have a sweet shelf in the hallway where my vintage rodents are proudly displayed:) I also regularly feed the fellas & gals in my backyard. I buy that cute corn on the cob which has a holder that attaches to my trees for them..... and always have their NUT HOUSE filled to the brim:-) If ya can't beat em might as well join em!!! The male tree squirrel takes twice as long, as the female, to groom itself. They are the cleanest animal in the rodent family. I just love that fact as sometimes my DH takes longer than I in the powder room:-) They also have a brain equated to the size of a walnut, interesting analogy, don't ya think:-) I am NOT making this stuff up, I googled it!!

Anyhoo...just thought I would share my love of the rodentia species with ya. Wishing you all a great evenin', gotta go check the back forty and make sure my friends are all happy:-)
Hug Life,
Peace, Marylou

~MORE PICS:-)~

2007-07-17T07:57:00.000-07:00

I know, more pics....why you say??? Well, because my darling DIL spent a year planning this big day and I am a proud mom:)

GENEVIEVE & ANTHONY!!

The bridal party!

Yummy Chocolate Cake.....everything was pink & brown:-)

Mother & Son dance to "It's a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong:)

We came, we laughed, we cried, we danced, we have wonderful memories BUT..... we are exhausted:-)

AND THEY "ALL" LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER:-)Thanks so very much for taking this journey and sharing with me!!!! Hug Life......Peace, Marylou

~OFFICIAL WEDDING PICS~

2007-07-15T08:13:00.000-07:00

The happy bride & groom with my husband Chris and myself:)AND........
The groom, my son and I:-)
Here is a fun one.....way into the dancing of the evening we had laughs with my daughter, her friend, Chris & I.....a little silly BUT HUGGIN' LIFE with all we had!! WOOHOO:-)

~A WORRIED MOM~

2007-07-13T07:33:00.000-07:00

This is what my son does each day. He is the gentleman in the middle. He is a FIREFIGHTER!! I am proud of him but I am fearful everyday. I know I must accept his job and the dangers that come with it but somedays I simply remember that little bundle of joy I brought home from the hospital on Dec. 11, 1979:) I tend to forget that he has grown into a fine young man....a soldier in our community. I have learned a new respect for our civil workers...our firemen & policemen (women too!!) Each day they don a uniform which they proudly wear to protect all of us. They do this as they have CHOSEN this path simply to help others in need. I am awed at their giving and total commitment to their opted fields and am often reminded of our soldiers who are fighting in another land for our freedom AND safety. I salute ALL our men and women who have elected to stand strong and protect ALL that is important to us...whether it be a small grass fire to a speeding car to a fighting battle in a land far from home. God Bless you all and let it be known.....IN THIS HOUSE WE ARE HONORED, GRATEFUL & EMBRACE ALL THAT YOU DO!

Now......go make it a grand day and be proud to be an American:)
Hug Life
Peace, Marylou

~AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER:)~

2007-07-12T14:23:00.000-07:00

Still waiting for the proofs so my sister-in-law sent me this lovely pic of my son and his bride. LOVE IT and LOVE THEM:-)
Hug Life,
Peace.....Marylou

~CAUSE HE'S A FIREMAN:-)~

2007-07-10T20:06:00.000-07:00

AND THE RING WAS DELIVERED BY...........:-)This was the ring bearer, sitting in a fire truck pulled by the flower girl......why.......cause the GROOM is a FIREFIGHTER:-)

~THE WEDDING, A GLIMPSE~

2007-07-10T13:18:00.000-07:00

My husband and I at my son's wedding....still waiting for the rest of the pics:) These were taken with cell phones..haha..... Will post the pro's PICS asap:)
Hug Life........Peace, Marylou

~HOME.........AT LAST???????????~

2007-07-06T08:20:00.000-07:00

I have returned from the depths of the vast deep sea:) I only hope I can remain home for awhile, between the wedding and the July 4th celebrations all I can say is........ I am POOPED:-) Well, the unthinkable happened....I knew it would....only a matter of time. Ya know what, in life if we all wait long enough "sh#t happens"..please forgive the profanity but sometimes the only words that truly express our thoughts and feelings are the "naughty" ones:-) I digress again....which I am starting to believe has something to do with procrastination and possibly A.D.D.....hey, look.....there goes a squirrel:) Seriously, if you can follow this post you are a better woman than I!!!! On Wednesday morning we boarded the sailboat, which I must mention is ours only to prove this irrelevant theory of mine. Because she is ours, since the year 2000 I have been aboard her many, many, many times. She is not small...33' and quite comfortable. She has a pilot house which makes her also known as a motor sailor so in bad weather we sit in the comfort of a sheltered room, gazing out to the white caps with no fear of getting wet...which most sailors enjoy,(getting wet) go figure!! I think I must be a "Dock" sailor:-)All this being said as we cruised out of our dock, with my daughter and her friend everything was "coming up roses". We had ravaged the local deli and filled the boat with all our favorite foods and drinks, loaded to the gills with Italian Prosciutto, several fab cheeses, salads, (all organic of course because of my daughter, the bio-chemist) and several amazing bottles of red wines. This happens to be my favorite manner of dining, an antipasto of delectable goodies and an amazing bottle of Merlot. Okay..I hope you are getting the picture. Everything I love in life is on this boat...my hubby, my daughter and my Italian REDS:-) (no ladies, not girls...wines:-)....The weather is co-operating perfectly with us, blue skies and temps well into the 90's but on the water it always feels so cool, that brisk breeze feathering ones face, heaven on earth. So, off we meander to take a soothing cruise under the Golden Gate Bridge, back around to Angel Island, a skip and a jump over to Treasure Island and lets not forget Alcatraz. Are ya with me so far??? Good! We are enjoying a very nice Louis Martini Merlot, some delish marinated olives and a lovely tray of tasty tidbits and I glance over at the horizon and for some strange reason my tummy felt odd. Can't explain this because it never felt like this before. Let me preface this by saying I had maybe 2 sips of my wine and had eaten a good breakfast so I know there is no reason for the churning in my tummy...gosh, could it be the flu coming on??? No, not that quickly!! Now my head is feeling rather strange, dizzy one might say. If you know me that is not unusual (big grin here) Back to the tummy dealy....I am not feeling well and decide to leave the top of the boat where the fresh air is and lay down in the aft cabin....BIG MISTAKE WHEN ONE HAS MOTION SICKNESS! YEP..........That is what I was dealing with. First time in many, many years. So, my daughter's friend is a doctor and he is explaining to me I need to NOT lay down but sit outside, watching something that is NOT moving...yeah, right, when you are on a moving boat what is not moving??? Okay, fair enough...the horizon seems to be stable so I try to focus on that being the good sport that I am:):) THAT DID IT.....I shall not go into detail but let it be known that the waters of the San Francisco bay and my face made more contact that I would have preferred as I leaned over the side of the boat and....well......I think you may have the picture and it is NOT a pretty one!!!! I now consider many fish groups and seals in the bay my new dear friends, we got kinda up close and personal:-) Dr. Dave brought me some ginger ale and I did my best to "hang" with the group but by the time the fireworks show began I was oohing and aahing to the "beat of a different drummer" wanting desperately to return to our dock and the comfort of my cabin.

I shall not forget this July 4th nor shall I want to return to our boat soon which I now refer to as that "demon".... I told my hubby, it will be a cold day in H#LL before I board this ocean floating menacing vessel!!!!! I believe mentally he believes that will happen sooner, rather than later...ahhhh, men and their toys! Peace to all and don't forget to Hug Life, even when the CHOPPY WATERS get ya:) Marylou

~WONDERFUL 2 B HOME:)~

2007-07-04T06:10:00.000-07:00

Remember that famous line from "The Wizard of Oz"...."there is no place like home".........Well, I am so feeling that! Mind you, the wedding was a BEAUTIFUL fairytale, the bride resembled Cinderella and the groom a look-a-like Prince Charming....and some of the guests reminded me of those little fellas, the munchkins, or maybe those lolipop kids??? I digress.......everything was wonderful but it was a long celebration. So many parties... and I do believe some parties were parties to celebrate other parties??? Upon reflecting upon this I have come to the conclusion that I am simply getting older...(ouch).... and the "parties" are becoming harder for me to enjoy as I crawl out of bed at 6:00 in the morning, hair askew, drool on my pillow, to only ask my hubby..."where do we have to be today and at what time???" WOW...what a pretty picture I must have been, poor hubby:(

I am only kidding cause that is what I do...some call it sarcastic conversation but I rather like to think of it as "the truth"......(big smile here) The truth is the wedding was truly wonderful with much love, jubilance & regalement embracing the ballroom!!!!! A day I shall remember for a lifetime as I gazed upon the pride and joy on my son's handsome face!!

I am off today to board a sail boat that shall take me out to the middle of the San Francisco Bay to anchor and wait for dusk so we can look at sparkling thingies up in the sky....no, not the stars....fireworks. Why do I put myself in these positions???? Cause the word NO is not in my vocabulary...ask my sis, Giovanna......I know she is smiling upon reading this, if she is reading this:) I have not gotten to the wedding pics yet, see...as a well known procrastinator I can simply explain I had to prepare for this boat venture and the sparkling thingies in the sky:):) I shall post the photos asap:) Just had to keep ya all posted and in the loop. I do want to wish everyone a very Happy 4th of July and please say a prayer for me as I twist my neck and contort my body to glance at fireworks that took me 12 hours to prepare for and may last a total of 5 minutes:) AHHHHHH....the pleasures of life and pomp and circumstance! Peace to all and Hug Life.....Marylou

~IT IS FINALLY HERE~

2007-06-27T10:16:00.000-07:00

After much anticipation my son's wedding day is approaching...this Saturday, June 30th:) We are leaving Friday for the wine country in Napa, CA where the nuptials will take place and we will be staying at a lovely hotel with many of the guests. It is in this hotel, The Meritage, where the ceremony and celebration will come to fruition. A new wine cave has just been built and this is where all the festivies will occur...It is truly "dreamy"...:) Seems like much is planned to entertain us all...Friday is GOLF day and many of the guests, as well as the groom shall be teeing off at 8:00 am...the second group will do the same at 12:00 noon...the rehearsal will be at 5:00 pm and the rehearsal dinner at 6:30 pm hosted by the groom's parents,that's us:)....after the dinner the ladies are invited to the bride's suite for a fun "sexy" gifts only party:) That should be LOTS OF LAUGHS:):) Saturday morning the bride's parents are hosting breakfast around the pool and after that there shall be games of choice...I hear the gentlemen are playing poker and the ladies shall have their choice of board games, shuffle board or simply reclining by the pool in the sunshine:) This shall occur with non-alcoholic beverages only being served as the wedding will start promptly at 6:00 pm and we certainly do not want any mishaps:-).....after the ceremony, which will have 250 lit candles..Awwwwwwwwww.... we shall be seated for a fabulous dinner while a slide show of the just married couple's (baby thru teen years) pictures are being shown:) That will be soooooo hysterical as I included one of my son at age 5 dressed up for Halloween like "Dolly Parton" (HUGE SMILE HERE) Luckily he does not know yet:) After dinner there shall be cake cutting and dancing and most likely much love & celebration for all!! The Mother of the Groom, Moi, and said son, Anthony will dance together to "It's a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong:) YIPPEE...WOOHOO...I LOVE THAT SONG AND TO DANCE WITH MY SON WHILE IT IS PLAYING IS A DREAM COME TRUE FOR ME:) I am sure we all shall dance late into the evening. We shall retire to our respective suites and Sunday morning another poolside breakfast is being held. You have no idea how MANY outfits I had to purchase but a girl has to to what a girl has to do:) YABA DABA DO!!!!!!!!!!!!! The married couple will be able to join us as their honeymoon will be in August......so, gosh, I am tired already simply talking about all the activities and we have not even started:) Now, with that said I shall leave you with a pic of the soon to be bride and groom and promise to post weddings pics asap.....
I am so Hugging Life right now.....God is so GOOD:)
Peace, Marylou

LOSS OF BROTHERS:(

2007-06-20T07:36:00.001-07:00

This post is a difficult one for me to compose but one I felt compelled to attempt. Recently in South Carolina 9 Firefighters lost their lives trying to save the lives of others!!! This tragedy shows the depths and courage our nation has and that which is channeled thru one of our most vital groups, our FIREFIGHTERS!!

We often hear news relating to wars, missing persons, thievery and politics and if you are like me, we "tend to lend" a deaf ear to those never ending tragic stories. This particular story hit HOME to me. You see, my SON is a Firefighter and the only thought while listening to this tragedy was that of my child, no.....MAN. I am guilty of being very selfish and I need to admit that!! I called my son immediately after I learned of this tragedy because I wanted to HEAR his voice...to know he was not in danger and that he was safe. No, he does not live in South Carolina...he lives here in California but I still NEEDED to hear his voice and know he was not in harms way. We chatted for awhile, he expressed his grief for these brave men and I truly heard the sadness & angst in his voice. As I completed the call and hung up I realized how "BLESSED" I am to have been able to talk to my son!!

While all this was occurring and the reason for this post was the immediate thought that rushed thru my mind. How do the mothers & fathers, brothers & sisters, aunts & uncles, grandparents and friends cope while their loved ones are serving our county in Iraq?????????????? For a moment there was silence in my head, a single stopped heartbeat, a heavy weight upon my shoulder...I was in awe of our men and women who are stationed there serving our nation and having to endure the trials and tribulations of such a adverse conflict. We do NOT have to agree with the war but we MUST agree to support these very brave soldiers who serve US!!!! When I hear of a peace demonstration or anti war rally my heart cringes for these brave souls who have put themselves in a position of terror & danger for the sole purpose of protecting our liberty and the liberties of others...this is NOT an argument whether ANY war is right or wrong.....this is A STATEMENT OF INTENTION THAT EVERY LIFE SHOULD BE RESPECTED AND VALUED, ESPECIALLY THOSE LIVES THAT PROTECT OTHERS. So, with that being said, I send my heartfelt condolences to the families & friends of the 9 lost Firefighters who willingly, with courage and fortitude, entered an inferno to save others and by doing so lost their own lives. As well, I send those same condolences to the families & friends of more than 3500 men and women who have lost their lives in Iraq to ensure the liberties of others. May our good and loving father above be keeping a special place of honor for these brave & amazing souls as they pass thru the gates of Heaven!!! Peace, Marylou

~FATHER'S DAY~

2007-06-17T07:49:00.001-07:00

Another one of those days for me to miss the ones I love..my dad has since passed and I wear a heavy heart today. I miss his laugh, his wisdom, his knowledge, his guidance!! I MISS HIM! I know I shall meet up with him again someday but I have many moments here on earth where I could certainly use his fortitude, insight and strength. I am very "BLESSED" as I have an older sister who I can turn to in dire times and she is ALWAYS there for me:) She reminds me of my dad so very much. She has his wit and dry sense of humor, his leadership, his courage and his discernment. So, with that said maybe my dad has not left this world...no...maybe he is working thru his eldest child, my sister. How fortunate I am to have this wonderful woman in my life and I hope she knows how much I appreciate her humanity and gentleness in a not so gentle world. I shall wish G a Happy Father's day because she is such a reflection of our DAD! God Bless you G, forever and always. I LOVE U:) Peace, Marylou

HUG LIFE:)

2007-06-01T11:20:00.000-07:00

I am so "hugging" life......:) Maybe being a newlywed does that to people, but I am so "hugging life" and am not gonna let go....:) No time for DRAMA. I have been around for awhile and I will never understand those who hang on to it, drama!! I have come to the conclusion that there is a reason for this...if, let's say... one feels guilt and angst over something they did or caused, and cannot let it go...it festers inside of their souls and manifests itself into...you guessed it...drama!! The unfortunate result of this occurs when others are hurt by the insecurities and selfish acts perpetrated by the "drama queen" herself...or "drama king"....... whatever the case may be. So, just a shout out to all who may see themselves in this synopsis....wake up, grow up and take responsibility for who you are and for those you have hurt! Thanks for listening to my tirade...I believe those who "need to heed" will know who they are!!! As a wise man once said.. "It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others".
Author: Sidney J. Harris 1917-, American Journalist
Peace...Marylou

HIPPIE WEDDING:)

2007-05-25T08:23:00.000-07:00

Well, guess what?? I am gonna get married:) Yep, and....drum roll please.... I am gonna have a "Hippie Wedding"....that is what I call it:) We, Chris and I are going to the beach here on the West Coast to a beautiful spot we frequent often! We are both wearing beach attire with flip flops...shall have shade tents set up and a few tables and chairs, some beverages and snacks! A lovely lady minister will perform the ceremony which we arranged ourselves. Is that too KOOL or what:) We shall head over to Sausalito after the nuptials and spend the night...maybe go sailing on Monday! The weatherman so far is co-operating and the forecast is for SUNSHINE:) My sister suggested a wreath of flowers for my hair, but, I think she was teasing me. I think that is very 60's so maybe I will update the flower dealy with a bouquet of one, yep...one truly beautiful flower....and maybe have the florist add a few sea shells:) I asked the groom, who shall be adorned in Tommy Bahama attire and flip flops, his fave flower...he replied, "YOU"....awwwwwwwwwww....does not get much better than that!! I am one lucky gal...NO, not lucky...I am "BLESSED"...hope G reads this one..BIG SMILE HERE!! So, off we go to the courthouse to purchase our marriage license and then prepare for the big day. From the lyrics of a famous song...."Somewhere over the rainbow" is where we shall be:) Peace to all & hugs to life, Marylou:-)

Marylou's Thoughts & Other Critical Matter:)

Still kicking***

Time Flies When You Are Having Fun~~

Where Does the Time Go????????

Time to Start Blogging Again;-)

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal

My Girl & Her Guys;-)

A Man and His Girl;-)

And She Is Here;-)

~~The Blues~~

Words in flowers........

Oh My Gosh;-)

A New Life;)

An Unbearable Sorrow;(

IT HAS STARTED;)

It's A Boy;)

Intuitive perception.........

~I am Here~

~My World is Upside Down~

~WHAT A GAME~

~MY BAD~

~AND IT RAINED, RAINED & RAINED~

~FOR BELLA~AKA, MARY@ISABELLAS CLOSET~

~ A PRAYER & A HOPE~

~A GREAT LOSS~

~CURMUDGEONLY~

~The Last Christmas~

~THEN AND NOW~

~YESTERDAY~

~Wasn't It Just Easter??????????~

~HAPPY THANKSGIVING~

~ZEN KITTY~

~FRIENDS~

~RELAX~

~THANK YOU~

~What They Don't Tell You~

~I NEED YOUR PRAYERS~

~ANOTHER YEAR, THANK YOU GOD~

~CALLING ALL GIRLFRIENDS~

~Happy Autumn~

~WHAT A GAL:-)~

~WE ARE WISE:-)~

~FOR AMY~

~MY BEST FRIEND:)~

~WEEK-END WIDOW~

~REPRISE~

~DRAMA~

~CHERRY QUEEN:-)~

~DAD~

~MOM~

~THEFT~

~FRIENDS~

~THE FLITTER~

~SISTERS~

~ I WON~

~THIS GAL ROCKS~

~AND I LOVE HER:-)~

~AT THE END OF THE DAY~

~SPIES??????????????~

~FROM ONE NUT HOUSE TO ANOTHER~

~MORE PICS:-)~

~OFFICIAL WEDDING PICS~

~A WORRIED MOM~

~AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER:)~

~CAUSE HE'S A FIREMAN:-)~

~THE WEDDING, A GLIMPSE~

~HOME.........AT LAST???????????~

~WONDERFUL 2 B HOME:)~

~IT IS FINALLY HERE~

LOSS OF BROTHERS:(

~FATHER'S DAY~

HUG LIFE:)

HIPPIE WEDDING:)

The Blues